Happy Birthday Isaiah!

Two birthdays so close together.  These two are closest in age and also share the closest birthdays - just 6 days apart. 

My sweet Isaiah.  Can you guess what I was studying when I was pregnant with him?  Yes, I was in the Beth Moore Bible study on the book of Isaiah.  So much strength in that man who loved God and spoke to share Him with others.  I see in my Isaiah a boldness that I pray will be used to point others to God.  While young, that trait can seem impulsive (and often is) and without censor.  I pray that his heart will be filled with God so that what spills out will be a reflection of the One who made him.



Isaiah is cuddly and often tells me how much he loves me.  Yes, this can sometimes follow a blessings, but I love that his joy flows out from his heart to his lips.  He is such a great hugger and can never seem to get enough of them.  I hope he never outgrows this trait!

Isaiah is smart and inquisitive.  He also faces challenges in learning.  I pray that God will guide me as I seek ways to encourage him and teach him so that he has the tools he needs to be the man he is designed to become. 

Isaiah has a wonderful sense of humor.  He makes us laugh so often.  Of course, I'm going to blank now on a good story to tell you.  He is a storyteller too.  I remember the Christmas that Eliana was born, he called out in his loud, strong and deep voice for us to all gather around because he had something to say.  He was just 5 and I wondered what in the world he was going to share.  Had we known, we would have grabbed the video camera.  He retold the Christmas story as if it were a news event.  It was such a sweet and beautiful moment.  It blessed my heart greatly at a time when I was struggling with all that was going on with  Eliana's health.  I also remember one of his comments that year as it too was a sweet blessing.  "This is the best Christmas ever!"  I needed his perspective.  He was  right.

Isaiah is generous (and will often give away his things to bless others), creative and a delight.  He enjoys playing outside and also inside on the computer or Wii.  He likes reading comic book style books.  Some of his favorites are Calvin and Hobbes (I hope he doesn't get any ideas!) and Garfield. 

Thank you God for blessing our family with Isaiah 9 years ago.  Happy Birthday precious Isaiah!  I love you!!!  Mommy

On his birthday, he started the day with pancakes (made by Dad) and chocolate milk.  (Roger takes the day off for our children's birthdays and we spend the day as a family doing things that they enjoy.)  We headed out for a field trip.  (More on that in another post.)  After the field trip, we went to a nearby campus and had a picnic lunch under the shade trees.  (It was in the mid-90s here that day!)  We brought cupcakes to share with his friends.



They sang Happy Birthday to him and enjoyed sweets with him.  (No pics of the cupcakes as I was passing them out instead of taking pictures.)



We hung out at home in the afternoon.  Played inside and out.  Isaiah opened some cards and gifts.





We had pizza for dinner.



Then watched a movie with some friends.  It was a fun day celebrating our Isaiah!

Blessings

Leslie

Health/Medical Updates

Thanks to all who were praying for Eliana. She was much better today! I'm not sure what caused her fever and lethargy yesterday.  Today she woke up and stayed up until her nap - with lots of her usual energy.  So nice to have her moving around again.  She was so pitiful yesterday!  I'm hoping and praying this is the end of it - whatever it was.  All things considered, it was not a bad sickness to have.



We also have had some medical appointments recently.  I took Daniel and Christopher to the eye doctor.  While we were there, I asked the doctor how likely it was that Daniel would lose his vision.  He has optic nerve drusen which is a condition that can cause the loss of sight.  I was told by a different doctor, a specialist, that this likely wouldn't happen until he was at least a young adult.  As you can imagine, this is a lot for a mama's heart to carry.  It isn't something that I've shared with him as there is no need for him to carry that weight as well.  His regular eye doctor believes that it is not likely at all that he will lose his sight.  Oh, I hope she is right!  Continuing to pray that Daniel will keep his sight.



We also had Diabetes Clinic.  It was a mixed set of information, but all in all a good visit.  His numbers still aren't where they should be - on average and also his A1C had gone up a little bit.  It is really discouraging to see that number when you are doing all you can to keep it low.   It feels like a test and I just can't get that good grade no matter how hard I try.  Then I wonder if I could be trying harder or doing more.  I know some of you understand these feelings - even if it isn't the same issue.

 He is higher on average than is optimal.  They believe that he isn't getting enough insulin.  This is most likely having an effect on his ability to gain weight.  I knew this was true before diagnosis, but didn't even think about it happening now.  :-(  He is very low on the charts for his weight (though none of mine are high on it!).  We've adjusted his base rate of  insulin and thus far he does seem to be having better numbers.  The goal in the past was to really keep him from having lows.  Hopefully we can tweak this now and get him in a better spot. 

We need to do some testing of this new rate by fasting through various meals/snacks and more frequent testing.  I am planning on starting that *after* we get through birthdays!  Should be next week. 

As we finished the appointment and were checking out, we could hear loud noises.  We went to see what was happening.  As we approached the lobby, a woman eagerly invited us to join in.  There were two young men there from Africa who were drumming beautiful rhythms.  There were many additional drums and the children were encouraged to play with them.  Joshua told me that it was much harder than he thought it would be to make different sounds based on where you hit the drum and with which part of your hard. 



It is a sweet think to see people working to encourage children who are dealing with more than they should be in life.  I'm thankful for these men and women who find ways to brighten their days!

As always, we have much to be thankful for!  Tomorrow is a busy birthday day!  Will post more on our sweet boy tomorrow.

Blessings

Leslie

His A1C was

Where is Eliana?

Eliana has just not been herself today.  She woke up very early - and in tears.  Had a hard time being consoled too.  She fell asleep watching myth busters with her brother.  I thought it was because she was up so early.  She woke up when I tried to move her.  She was still tired though and fell asleep many more times during the day - and in many places.

In Rebecca's room

On Joshua's bed

On Daniel's bed

On the sofa.

On the chair.

At one point in the afternoon, I couldn't find her when I thought she had been with Rebecca.  We did a quick look and couldn't find her.  Oh, there is nothing like the panicky feeling when you can't find one of your children!  Well, after some more looking we did locate her.  It was her position that made her tough to find.

Apparently she woke up and needed a diaper change.  She climbed onto the changing table and then fell asleep.



Is that pitiful or what?  And yes, she had her foot crossed like that too.  LOL 

She was running a low grade fever earlier today.  Isaiah even came up to me at one point and told me that he thought she felt warm.  Poor sweet baby.  Please join us in praying that whatever it is will pass quickly and with no additional symptoms.  I'd love for it not to be shared too.  We have another birthday this week and I'd love all healthy family members.

Blessings

Leslie

PS  I've posted twice today - so scroll down for another new post.

Walnut Creek Wetland Center - Field Trip

We had a great field trip a couple of weeks ago to the Walnut Creek Wetland Center.   It is a really neat place.  I'm always amazed each year that we are able to find so many neat places that we have never visited before.  I've been planning field trips since 1995.  (I love field trips!)  Finding new places is a treat!

We split into groups when we arrived - a younger group and an older group.  I stayed with the 3 younger boys and Eliana hung out with Rebecca during the first half of the program.  Each group did similar activities and then switched.

The younger students started in the classroom and learned wetlands and the types of animals that live in them.  They were given cards to identify and then take up to the table.  I loved seeing this sweet moment of brotherly love.  Gotta love the fedoras too!



Next they talked about soil and erosion.  They learned that grass helps to hold the soil when it rains (or floods).  It was a fun experiment. 



Next we went on a short nature hike. 



We walked beside a stream.  I loved the picture because Daniel reminded me of a "runt" trying to squeeze in and see.



We walked beside a stream.  It's pretty low as we are in the midst of a pretty severe drought.



We learned about different insects and animals that live in this wetland.



They talked about hearing and how you can hear better with your hands cupped around your ears. 



 I don't remember why they talked about this as I wasn't really paying attention very well.  *blush*  They also looked for animal tracks in the dirt and sand. 

For the second half of the program we met on the porch (what a nice shady spot!) to talk about   The instructor was very engaging.  The children collected various things in a little baggie to represent things found in a wetland.



There was also a small visitor's center area which had books, toys, puppets and more.  I highly recomment a visit if you are local.





We enjoyed a picnic lunch on the porch area before heading home.  It was a delightful morning!

If you want to see some pictures of  the older kids, you can visit my friend Angela's blog post about this same field trip.

Blessings

Leslie

Aquarium

We spent some time at the aquarium at the request of Isaiah.  He wanted to do this for his birthday (which is later this week) and we agreed.  It's such a neat place with a lot of hands-on exhibits and plenty of  interesting sea life to keep everyone occupied.  So many pictures, but I'll try to hit the highlights!

We had a blast ... from the giant piranna  you could enter and slide out of ...



to the horseshoe crabs.





We met new friends



and hung out with dear old ones too. 



Inside an oyster shell.



The moving exhibit was on dangers in the ocean.  It was fascinating to learn about the many and varied types of defenses the creatures have been given.  I enjoyed seeing Eliana figure out how to make the exhibits work. 



I think my favorite part is the moving tunnel.  You stand on a moving conveyor belt (like at the airport) and go through a water filled tunnel.  There are sharks, fish, turtles and more swimming to your side and also over your head.  It makes for great views - though not such great pictures.



It was a fun outing.  (Except when we were exiting through the gift shop and accidentally knocked down one of the shelves.  Thankfully nothing broke!  I think it is really ridiculous that you must exit through the gift shop to leave the building.  Oh well.  We made it through with no additional purchases.)

If you are a homeschooler, make sure you ask for the homeschool discount that is available.  Definitely makes it more affordable.  Just be sure to bring proof of homeschooling.

Blessings

Leslie

Beach

Well, it seems I'm having a hard time keeping up with my blog.  Life is just ... busy.  I'm not sure why it seems busier now than usual, but it does.  I'm just trying to live life and enjoy it.  I'm reading books more than usual and enjoying that too.  I'm going to blame one week of not posting on the beach. 

We made our annual fall beach trip again this year.  We left on a Friday as Rebecca had an out of town volleyball game about 1.5 hours from our house - and on the way to the beach.  They won the game for those who might be curious.  We also met our sweet friends from VA down there.  We all look forward to this time together. 

We had amazing weather while we were there.  It was warm and there was no rain.  We had fun playing on the beach and also in the pool.  Here is a glimpse of some of our time there - mostly just pictures with a few comments here and there.  If you have questions - please ask.

Love this picture of these two - so captures their relationship!





Blurry, but still cute.



Hoping that this isn't the last year for our whole family to make a fall trip - even if it is shorter!  I know, change is hard for me and I will try not to talk about it too often.  It makes me tear up to think about it - every. single. time.  I just love having him around!



Friends their whole lives.













There is an inlet where the ocean comes into a "river".  My boys like to go there and catch crabs.  (And ultimately release them again.)



When the tide is out, it is also a great place to play.



When the tide is high, it is tough to cross.  Joshua and I found that out the hard way when we were walking to our friends house close to high tide.  We had to go through chest high (for him) water with a strong current and in shifting sand.  We held hands and helped each other.  I love walking on the beach and Joshua was my walking buddy on this trip.  We made a number of trips together and it was a great time to spend talking with each other. 

Loved this picture of Eliana splashing her foot in the water while she looks at her reflection.



Brothers.











Not sure when we'll make it back to the beach again.  I'd love to go one more time in the fall, but our weekly schedule is just so tight right now.  I think it will ease up during the winter ... we'll see. 

I'm thankful we were able to go and spend time with our family and friends.  It was a sweet time!

Blessings

Leslie

Happy Birthday Joshua!

Happy Birthday my precious Joshua!  Can it really be 11 years since you entered our lives? I remember well the night you arrived.  It was my easiest birth.  It was all that I could have hoped for - and ending it with a beautiful baby was all that mattered anyway.  I remember your chunky thighs as a toddler.  Oh, I loved all those rolls!  Hard to imagine now that you were once chunky!  Look at you now! 



He has always been sensitive - sometime in ways much beyond his years.  I remember that he was the one to comfort me on the due date of a child we had lost to miscarriage.  He was just 3 years old and I knew didn't remember that date - no one really did.  I think it is one of those things that a mom never forgets, but is often something that only she carries.  We were driving somewhere and I was pondering that I "should have been" doing something much different on that date.  I was missing the little one that we had longed for and talking with God about it.  I was sharing with Him how hard it was to have a date that meant something to me - and that nobody else really remembered it.  From the back seat piped up a little voice - Joshua - asking me about our baby in heaven.  Talking with me about the fact that the baby was with Jesus.  God used our little boy to show me that He remembered.  He knew.  I was comforted and stunned. 



Joshua has always been curious.  He asks questions.  Lots of questions.  He wants to learn about so many things.  His interests are varied and many.  He frequently surprises medical staff when he wants procedures explained and processes defined.  I think that they appreciate that he wants to know and understand what is going on with his body.  His questions can at times seem a delay tactic - especially at bedtime.  It's hard to stifle that creative mind - but a boy does need to sleep!  LOL

He is also brave.  He has endured a lot over the last year and learned more than a little boy should have to about needles, pokes, blood sugars, carbs, lows and more.  I'm proud of him and the way he is learning to care for himself.  I hope and pray he will continue to make good choices with his life. 



Joshua loves to read.  He often has his nose in a book.  I love it!  I learned to love reading at an early age and it delights my heart to see my children following the same  path.  There is so much to learn and explore between the covers of a good book.

Joshua also loves to play outside.  There is much to do in the woods and in the backyard - especially in the company of siblings and friends.  Joshua also has a fun sense of humor and loves to make others laugh.  He enjoys being silly - especially if it results in laughter. 

He has his own sense of style and self.  He wears his fedora every day.  It's his "trademark" .  I love that he is comfortable in his own skin.  I pray for my children that they will realize that they need approval from One and that this will allow them to be the person that He created them to be.  I know God has a purpose for each one of them and what a treat it is to watch them grown and learn and start developing the skills and talents they will need to follow the path God has for them.



One of the things that Joshua has been wanting to do - is to play airsoft like his big brother.  To be honest, it wasn't high on my list for him, but then I'm not a huge gun person either.  Joshua was delighted to receive an airsoft gun for his birthday.  I do think that it's a fine things for the boys to do - at the right age (with supervision when needed) and with safety rules in place.



We allow our children to choose what they will do on their birthday.  Joshua said that he wanted to play football and airsoft.  We invited over a family with a bunch of boys and they all headed to the backyard to play.  They stopped for awhile for a dinner of hotdogs, hamburgers and fixings and then headed out for more play time.  We were joined by some neighborhood friends too.  It was a fun day.

I'm thankful for this special child and all that he has brought to our family and our lives.  I prayed for him long before he arrived - often wondering if there would be a 3rd Nelsen child.  What a sweet answer to prayer.  Thank you God for blessing us with Joshua.  Thank you for the gifts and talents you have given him.  Help us to encourage, challenge and nuture him in the way that You have planned for him.

I love you Joshua!



Love,

Mom