Monday - Well, we are trying to start back to school. I'm not sure this is the best week since we have soooo many appts, but I hate to wait for a "good time" as I'm not sure when that will be. We'll just do the best that we can. We typically make a big deal of our first day - and are putting that off until later in the week. We have a breakfast out and talk about our upcoming year. Lots of photos and fun.
Today has been ... well, so fun mixed in with not so much fun. The children have been helpful and also whiny. So much whining makes me grumpy. (I know - I should deal with it better.) Not a great start for anyone. Part of what is frustrating me is that Eliana's button keeps coming open - and leaking all over everything!!! She has had on 4 outfits so far today. She's gotten a quilt, a rug, and me. I've tried keeping it closed with a soft tube around her middle (doesn't help) and a band-aid (helps but really irritates her skin). This has really become a problem in the last 24 hours.
Eliana has an appointment with the ENT (ear, nose & throat) doctor today. I'm hoping that they will get a clear and accurate reading on her hearing test. I'm also hoping that her hearing is fine. I'd love to skip the getting tubes for now even though it is a minor surgery compared to what she has already been through.
Tuesday - We have a visit with our ped. I'm looking forward to talking with her about Eliana's g-tube, her feeding amounts and the problems we are having. I'm so glad she is back! We have a long appt time as she schedules us at the end of the morning or afternoon slot so that nobody is after us.
We will also be seeing the feeding therapist. I've cut back on Eliana's feeding and it will be interesting to see if it has affected her weight at all. She has had some good feedings - an ounce is now a good feed - in the last couple of days.
Wednesday - Physical therapy. I enjoy this because it is usually a time of encouragment. I found out last week that our PT has co-written a therapy book/assessment tool for use with children. Wow! I always hear how great she is - and to know that she has all of this background is even more impressive. I'm thankful to have someone with such experience helping Eliana.
Thursday - We visit the Down syndrome clinic. I'll be meeting with a doctor and a genetic counselor. She is also scheduled to have bloodwork done. May choose to do that at the ped instead. I'm not sure. It won't be a terribly long day since we already have an eye dr, ENT, cardiologist, physical therapist and occupational therapist. Otherwise all of those folks could be on the list as well.
Friday - Nothing so far. I think that is what I'm going to want for that day too - nothing!!!
I would love prayers for the following things:
*Leakage - If there is a way for the "flap" to close so that she doesn't leak so much and so often it would be great. This only happens if the button gets opened. It happens after a feed, before a feed and whenever it just comes open.
*Hearing - An accurate test. I'm also praying that her hearing is fine!
*Button - I would love prayers that either it would stop opening or that we could find a way to help keep it closed. I'm really at a loss as to what to do here.
*All of our appts would go well. That I would remember to ask all the questions that I have and that I would get the information that we need.
*Schooling - That this would be the start of a fun year. We are spending some time this week making "All about Me" books. I think it will be a lot of fun to have these as keepsakes.
Need to go as it is about time to leave for our appointment. More as I'm able to post.
Love,
Leslie
Leslie,
ReplyDeleteWhat about 2" wide elastic bandage, like you would use to wrap a sprained wrist or ankle? Would that work to wrap and fasten around her middle to keep that button closed?
I know you've thought: If only you'd have gotten better instruction at the hospital so you'd have switched to the other adapter sooner and prevented that flap from getting stuck open! But that is one of those things that you can't go back and do over. Have you asked anyone (doctor or nurse) if there is anyway to go in with a slender sterile tool and snag that flap and get it unstuck?! Oh, in my mind, I'm thinking of this really slender crochet hook that I have for crocheting doilies and such.
Dear Leslie, I feel exhausted just reading about your busy week. And you are choosing to add school on top of everything else?! May GOD bless you, dear girl with supernatural strength and grace!!
GOD's BEST!
Love,
Anna
I hope they can help you figure out how to stop the leaking. I love the idea of something to pull that flap back in place.
ReplyDelete((((HUGS))))) Tami